Designed Feelings
Expectations: The most terrible word in the human
dictionary, which is responsible for heartbreak, distress, fear and other
infinite number of gloomy words which I can add.
Sometimes I think that, Is it any way possible for not expecting anything from your dear ones?
If there are no expectations then, how can the feelings be real?
Because as per me, we expect only from those for whom we have unconditional feelings. A conditional person will somehow manipulate the circumstances. It is a universal truth that a mother loves her child unconditionally so; do we not expect anything from our mother? Yes! We do expect.
Instantly at the second moment I contemplate that, from where do these expectations arises?
What I felt is that: Expectations arise from mind. Our mind is the doer of all the calculations based expectations. Heart follows the instincts whereas mind creates the instincts!
None could undergo what is wandering in our mind due to which they cannot fulfill the same but yes one can easily sense what we are feeling at heart.
So, instead of calculating or designing our feelings from mind and putting it before; can’t we be spontaneous by heart and welcome what we actually want? Life would be at peace!!
True, Well written..
ReplyDeleteThankyou Abhinav!
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Deletehaaa.....well written...chal isi baat pe TAJ me bada sa treat de de Abhinav...:P
ReplyDeleteVery true!! As v r human being, we always expect from othrs. I think its our nature. One cudnt stop expecting from othrs... well writtin Palak. \m/
ReplyDeleteVery true!! As v r human being, we always expect from othrs. I think its our nature. One cudnt stop expecting from othrs... well writtin Palak. \m/
ReplyDeleteThank you!!
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